NOTE: I do have some other family from my parent's marriages that are in CA/AZ and who I love very much but for the sake of this blog entry I am discussing my family that is far away.
I know that every family has their own traditions that they share but I think the distance makes our family traditions even more special and important in my mind. It is kind of like a long distance relationship, every meeting is extra sweet because of the distance in between. My dad's family is characterized by trips to the lake, strawberry shortcake, rhubarb (everything), barnyard canasta, fishing, and my grandma win's Christmas cookies (so basically... food :) )
My mom's family is defined by GOOD bagels, lobster, white fish salad, amazing corn, blueberries until our face changes color, excessive schedule planning, and lots of cultural adventures. I have realized that two of my most distinctive qualities come from my mom's side: my constant planning and my habit of packing snacks even if I am leaving the house for 20 min or so... :). The planning is from my grandma who always has a calendar out with a stack of articles on things for us to do and a pencil in hand to ensure we get as much out of our stay as possible and the snack packing is mirrored in my mom's daily activities. I think Todd appreciates the second and not the first but each of their quirks are seen in my daily manner. Anyone agree? :)
This trip back east has been no different :) Tonight we are sitting down (outside) to attack some lobster, yesterday we made the shlep down to New Jersey to see my Aunt and Uncle and today Grandma, Grandpa and I made a trip to Gillette Castle. It is an enormous house overlooking the Connecticut river that William Gillette designed and built as his retirement home. This is the man who brought Sherlock Holmes to the stage and played him more that 1,300 times and yet his design of the house is almost as impressive as his theater repertoire. It is a huge, three story mansion built with different kinds of wood, locally found stone, secret passageways and amazing views. I highly recommend googling Gillette's Castle or clicking HERE as this "house" was really one of a kind! We (basically Grandma) always seems to find some museum or interesting place that we haven't been to yet and it is such a treat to have someone else thinking of things to do! I have to admit that I am nervous about Todd visiting because Covina is not the greatest and I am thinking I may have to hire some friends or something to keep him occupied ;)
Actually I am very excited for the possibility of sharing my family traditions with someone else. Rachel, my friend from junior high loves coming over for our Jewish food and we love sharing our family/ cultural traditions with her. Thank you to all my family that has nurtured and introduced the traditions that I treasure so dearly today. It makes the distances seem small and the time between visits short and sweet. I am really enjoying my family time and also counting down to the next opportunity we have to create memories and share our traditions :)